Whether you:

- are SINGLE and are losing yourself in the strong desire and neediness for relationship
- have been IN RELATIONSHIP for a while and feel you’re not sure who you are anymore
- are going through a BREAKUP/DIVORCE and want to find yourself again
- recently got in relationship and want to make sure you STAY EMPOWERED, THIS TIME

I specialize in providing the tools and loving support that will teach you how to become empowered and stay empowered in any relationship, no matter what – including your relationship with yourself (the most important), your partner, or any other person in your life.

Joyology is the process of developing sustainable joy through the practice of what I call Inner Teamwork. Inner Teamwork is the state in which all aspects of the self – from the most ego-identified to the most elevated – learn to work together lovingly and harmoniously toward the same heart-centered intentions and goals. This process of powerfully partnering up with yourself generates within you a win-win relationship, which naturally reveals your most authentic fulfillment and joy.

“When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.”
― Tom Robbins

The University of Santa Monica defines spiritual psychology as “the study and practice of the art and science of human evolution in consciousness.” Evolution in consciousness is a progression from identifying ourselves as a local, impermanent, and seemingly separate self to identifying ourselves as the unchanging and boundless loving essence within. Spiritual psychology recognizes our fundamental spiritual reality and that our purpose is to evolve.

In my work, this means seeing my clients as spiritual beings learning to work more effectively with their human faculties. By developing a learning orientation to life, clients begin to identify the inherent value in all of who they are. They become more adept at using the totality of their experience for their upliftment and growth: they come to understand the healing opportunities within the challenges they face, and learn to see the so-called “useless” or “negative” aspects of themselves as being able to positively contribute to their lives.

The essence of my work is teaching the art and mastery of self-love and self-support, through healing and strengthening the most important partnership of our life: the relationship with ourself. This leads to an ability to support oneself, spiritually and emotionally, through anything and all that one encounters in life. The result is living a life in which one is empowered by everything.