When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter. ― Tom Robbins

Maturity is accepting the responsibility of being oneself, whatsoever the cost. Risking ALL to be oneself, that's what maturity is all about.


You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

- The Buddha

Until you make the un-conscious Conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.

Carl Jung

I can do nothing for you but work on myself... You can do nothing for me but work on yourself.

― Ram Dass, Be Here Now

Come home to yourself.

You are The One you have been waiting for ALL your life.

  If you want to see the Love of your life, look in the mirror. 

Byron Katie

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